The Bonjour restarts is spot on and probably what is causing your WLED odd behavior.
You are in luck because it looks like most of your Wifi devices are ones which integrate well with Hubitat.
There is a built in integration for Kasa, here are he docs: Kasa Integration | Hubitat Documentation
This should mostly add all your Kasa devices in one go. One tip I have for that app is DO NOT give it your Kasa login credentials. It should be able to discover all your devices on the LAN and IMO will work better without the cloud connection.
For your Schlage lock, is it Wifi or Zigbee? Or do you know the model number?
Check this out for your Govee strip Govee Integration V2
