Been trying to chase down issues I'm having with the Airplay integration and it got me down pretty deep into the mDNS rabbit hole.
Long story short I have two HE hubs (one C7, one C8P) on the same LAN, hub meshed over a handful of devices. Both are wired to an unmanaged switch. I have Bonjour restarts turned off on both. I was having trouble with the Airplay integration on the C7 not seeing my Homepod Mini any more, so I installed it on the C8 Pro to see if there would be a difference. To my surprise, there is; the C8 Pro is able to see more Airplay devices, including the Homepod mini.
Had a look at activity monitor on the old iMac (same LAN) and saw this:
Does it change anything if you disable/remove the Airplay integration?
Is that the app where you have to install some extra library via the app for it to work?
Wondering if whatever extra software it adds on is what is causing the extra traffic.
Yes, it is. I've just disabled it. Thank you for the suggestion. If I don't see a difference, I'll try removing it altogether (and I'll have to deal with a bunch of broken rules with Speak actions, since child devices can't be swapped...)
Thanks. Turning the hub(s) off sure makes a difference (I have a whole household of Bonjour devices...). When both are off, the traffic gets much lower.
I also tried
shutting down the HA vm running on the iMac
restarting mDNSResponder
rebooting the router (had been up for three months straight)
After the router rebooted there was a large traffic spike, but then things went back to "normal" (chatty).