You should be able to edit any rule. The trick is that since you've already added actions, to get the IF
s and things suggested above, you'll have to use the options like "Insert action before". You can't re-order actions after they've been added, only delete and add new ones elsewhere (before another or at the end)--a limit to the app UI model Hubitat inherited from a certain other platform many of us migrated from.
Starting a new rule and creating it as above would also work. You could also manually disable your app, including the Simple Lighting automations, rather than automating the dates, though I do like the idea of automating that, which would probably be most easily done with RM (or you can delete it and re-create it next year--I'm trying not to do that this year, but I can't guarantee I won't totally re-do any of my hubs before then...).