I had already tried the first option and didn’t work for me. When I enter the address rather then select home it defaults to home. May try the neighbor address and see if that works.
In the same boat- I can not get either my phone, or daughters, to trigger on presence whether we are arriving or leaving. Sometimes it works when we arrive but its rare.
I have noticed that you can not select " always" and I'm sure this has been that way for a few updates..
It only allows "while using app" or " widgets"