[Deprecated] Xiaomi / Aqara ZigBee device drivers (possibly may no longer be maintained)

check @chirpy's drivers here. I haven't used them (yet) but may have that.

Otherwise https://www.zigbee2mqtt.io/ with this particular note Set sensitivity of the Aqara Vibration sensor 路 Issue #3028 路 Koenkk/zigbee2mqtt 路 GitHub.

If you search for deconz you should be able to find similar resources quite easily. Both these solutions will require a middleman (eg raspberry pi) and additional zigbee sticks which may be overkill.

I don't know although it "may" be possible if the sensitivity is set within the device. I guess you can test this with the app.

Otherwise look for a used smartthings contact sensor somewhere or another brand device. Suggest you open a new thread asking for advice on such sensors to get a wider audience.