What you may want to do is try to break things down a little bit to help understand what does what for you.
Voice Assistants:
Example Apple Homepod, Alexa , Google Home
These devices allow you to talk to your platform of choice, They often do come with some level of automation rules, but are very limited.
Automation hubs(Platforms):
Hubitat, Smartthings, Home Assitant, Aquara Hub, Tuya Smartlife, Many more
These are the brains of your Home Automation, Generally with rule engines of some kind to allow you to create allot of rules that follow some kind of: If this happens do this. Not all rule engines are created equally though. Generally speaking the most powerful rule engines are considered Hubitat, and Home Assistant with Hubitat being the easier to use. Some of these hubs are heavily cloud dependent, while others are not. As of right now i think Hubitat and Home Assistant are the only 100% local platforms,
Device only Hubs:
Lutron, possibly more
These will be hubs for other platforms to talk to their proprietery devices. Because lutron doesn't follow a standard radio used in Home Automation platforms it needs a intermediate hub to talk between any Home Automation platform and it's devices. Many consider this a tradeoff good because of the quality of devices. But often these devices can be replaced with similar devices that run on native Home Automation wireless technologies.
How devices connect to the hub
You also want to consider how things connect to your hub. There are 3 main ways things will talk to your hub. Wifi, Zwave, or Zigbee. Not all are created equal.
Zwave is a 900mhz radio that is standard to many Home Automation platforms. Generally speaking if a device uses Zwave for it communication it can talk to any hub that supports Zwave. This will talk directly to the hub, or through other zwave devices that are part of your zwave network
Zigbee is similar to Zwave in that it is a Home Automation radio technology to talk to your hub directly, It runs on 2.4Ghz and as such is subject to more interference from the slew of wifi devices and such that also use that range. That said it generally works well, has more bandwith then Zwave, and is very mature and used in a variety of ways to extend it's use outside of just Home Automation.
Wifi is exactly what it sounds like. It is home automation with devices attaching to your Home wifi network(your router) and then talking to your hub over it's local LAN connection to your home network. Wifi is a hard nut to crack as it sounds great, but suffers from some potential major drawbacks. Wifi devices can talk directly to the internet and are often locked to Cloud only options. This isn't always the case, but often is. If you find wifi devices that don't require Internet access then that is best.
As far as devices mentioned
From your list of current products you have a really good start to work almost exclusively from Hubitat if you wanted to.
As the Hubitat supports Matter it can certainly control the "SmartWings Blinds" as long as you get the C7 or above hubitat hub
Lutron will be one hub you can't avoid if you get Lutron switches. Just make sure you get the Pro one. You may want to check for limitations on the hub to know if you need to get more then one based on number of devices to connect to it.
There has been a huge push of Aqara devices with official support. That said one device i don't see on the device compatibility list is the doorbell.
The Ecobee thermostat is generally a cloud only affair except for Homekit. It uses Wifi to talk to the ecobee cloud and then you can either use the native Hubitat integration or the Ecobee Suite integration to have it interact with your hub. I actually have one and use the Ecobee Suite Integration. It is more feature rich. As i said earlier this device also supports Homekit, and that can provide you a way to bring it in locally. You just have to remember it is limited based on functions Homekit supports. This simply means some functionality would be missing using HomeKit.
I also have the Yale Assure2 Lock. I don't know why Yale makes it so hard to find it with their zwave lock module. I would suggest returning this and swapping for the wave module if possible. If not you can buy the zwave module as a add on. All Yale Assure locks have Bluetooth built in and then can support wifi, Zwave, or Zigbee with the addition of a communication module. You just need to get the right one.
I tend to try to stay within the Zwave/Zigbee communication method if I can. I hope all that has helped.
