I would say first step to avoid the nuke would be to read this post: ‼ READ FIRST - Before Posting in Get Help and follow some of the tips in there, and post all the requested info.
The problem sounds like a hub resources issues. I fixed a hub for someone with similar issues and they had a rouge Wifi integration still going where the devices had been disconnected for a while and it would just keep trying to connect until the hub started having problems.
That being said... we gave all the info and warnings. To each their own I guess. What's the saying... you can lead a horse to water...
