Check out unifi stuff. It's not the prettiest, fastest, cheapest, but it has legit support from a company known to stand by their products. Their software is definitely "prosumer" level at minimum, where most mesh devices top out at "decent consumer".
You'll own unifi hardware until one day, 15 years from now, some piece of hardware won't support the "old" wifi standards, and you'll have to upgrade. And that will be the first time in 15 years you worried about wifi.
My original unifi ap with mikrotik router is going maybe 8 years strong now. One time I had to reconfigure the ap, and that was to change the ssid (and I updated it as well).