Well that all depends on who it is a problem for. If it's only a problem for her, then she can do whatever she wants. If it's a problem for me, well there has to be some compromise now doesn't there? And that goes both ways.
Yes but, does she need a hero? Men are always trying to fix problems for their spouse, I think it is in our nature, but half the time they don't even want them to... Sure, they will often be polite and say thanks. But often they are thinking that was a huge waste of time, and not a problem that needed solved by you.
It seems that after a few times of forgetting she'll either be okay with moving her stuff or she'll start plugging it in... Not really a problem to solve in my opinion.
But of course everyone is different, and you do you. You certainly don't have to defend why you are doing it to me! I'm just presenting another perspective.
I created a new virtual presence sensor and added it to HomeBridge but when I attempted to configure detection of my wife arriving at work iOS prompted, "People Will Be Removed from Automation - Choosing a location other than (home) will remove the other people from this automation."
Then it dawned on me, instead of determining when she goes to work, determine when she doesn't, which since she works a normal M-F in the office is simple to do:
If day is M-F and wife is home at x o'clock, she didn't go to work.
Put a magnet on a necklace for her. Valentines is next week, make it look nice...
Put a door sensor on a necklace for yourself.
On M-F before 10am, if the door sensor fires, because you kissed your wife Goodbye, she's going to work. On M-F after 3:30pm, if the door sensor fires, because you kissed your wife Hello, she's not at work.
Does her employer have charging stations? If so, have her charge it there, on their dime while she's working. But seriously, wouldn't there be some way to where she could plug it in, but the charging wouldn't start until rates come down? Some kind of rule?
Gotta say I'm glad I'm not on one of those kind of rate plans. Saw alot of people get stung during Texas' Snowmageddon last year with those wholesale spot rate plans. One guy wound up with an $18k power bill for days 3.