and i dont really differentiate each of us.. do you have rules that only work for one person versus the other? I havent found any profund cases I needed that for?
Yeah, one is she wants all of our outside lights turned on when she gets home (feels more secure) than we normally have on. I only do that for her arrivals, feels wasteful to me and potential annoyance to neighbors to turn on a blaze of lights. I also turn off low battery GH voice notifications if only she is home, she kinda hates "...getting nagged by that thing" since I'm not there to change the batteries
I do the same w/lights in the back yard due to coyote worries, when she's home alone I light up the backyard and both side yards so she feels safer w/the dogs doing late-night potty breaks. I personally don't think lighting up the side yards makes it any safer since from the area of the back yard where we potty break the dogs she can't see the side yard that is the most common coyote path, and the coyotes aren't spooked by lights, but it makes her feel better. Don't do it when I'm home as I do all the night potty breaks when I'm there, and don't like inflicting more late night lights on the neighbors.
A couple others I'm not remembering right now. Nothing that would cause the world to stop turning but accomodating her makes her makes her more accepting of my automation mania.
And your just being a good husband
Thanks! I believe it could also be called "Well trained..."
We just celebrated 36 years this week so I know exactly what you mean.