My advice will be to put this Aqara switch aside and use something else, until a proper driver for Hubitait is written especially for it.
This is a rather complex device that operates in several different modes and needs a driver that configures it properly.
Beware, in one of the operational modes this Aqara device uses Zigbee Group Messaging to broadcast on/off commands to all Zigbee switches/plugs that support Zigbee groups. A lot of devices by default use group #0, which means that all or most of your other switches, plugs, and bulbs may be suddenly switched off/on, without Hubitat hub control!