Aqara Switch not updating status of child 2 when switching manually

I have several Aqara H1 double rocker switches, they connect to HE without any issues, the only problem i have (no matter what driver i’m using) - that the second child is not updating the status when i press the button manually. It works fine for child 1, no matter if there are lights wired to it or not, but not for child 2. It updates the status when i press ‘refresh’, but obviously that is not a solution.

It looks like there are people struggling with it on other platforms as well: Reddit-Zigbee2MQTT

and they have found a solution, but dont know how to translate it to HE